Why Do Babies Snuggle to the Edge of the Bed?

 (By Keren Giber Segev)

An Intriguing Developmental Explanation

As parents, one of the surprising and sometimes worrying things we notice about babies sleep behavior is their tendency to cling to the edge of the crib. No matter how often we place them in the middle, no matter how small they are they somehow make their way to the corners, pressing their heads against the crib's sides or the bumper pads. While this might seem concerning at first, it’s actually a completely natural behavior rooted in the deep memory of life in the womb.

Why Does This Happen?

Connection to Womb Memories: During pregnancy, the baby is surrounded constantly by the walls of the uterus, especially with their head often in contact with some surface. This sensation provides them with comfort and security. After birth, babies instinctively seek to recreate this familiar feeling.

This behavior serves several important developmental functions:

1.   Self-Soothing: Helps the baby relax.

2.   Sense of Security: Reminds them of the familiar environment of the womb.

3.   Spatial Awareness: Helps the baby understand their surroundings’ boundaries- their body boundaries.

4.   Sensory Development: Provides essential sensory stimulation

What Should You Do?Nothing. Everything is just fine. You can use a safe bumper, gently place your hand on their head while you help them fall asleep, and most importantly, know that everything is okay.

Remember:

• Always follow sleep safety guidelines.

• Avoid loose items in the crib.

• Make sure the mattress is snug and well-fitted.

• Keep the room temperature comfortable.

Tips for Concerned (=Normal) Parents:

1.   Remember that this behavior is perfectly normal.

2.   You can try moving them from the edge but don’t stress over it.

3.   Ensure the sleep environment is safe.

4.   Trust in your baby’s natural instincts.

5.   Share any concerns with your pediatrician.

Over time, as your baby grows, this tendency usually decreases. It’s a part of the natural adjustment to life outside the womb.

Remember, each baby develops at their own pace, and it’s essential to respect their unique needs.

In Conclusion: Babies habit of snuggling to the bed’s edge reflects a natural, healthy need for comfort and security. Rather than fight this instinct, understanding its developmental basis and providing a safe sleep environment will allow your baby to fulfill this need. Remember—nature is wise, and our babies know exactly what they need to feel safe and calm.

And if you’re ever unsure,

I’m here to help.Keren